Love Yourself, Love Myself.

Before choosing to love others, give meaning to yourself. Think about what I'm going to tell you this: 

First, when you try for someone who often doesn't try for you too, then what is the meaning of your efforts? Are you satisfied with just seeing him happy, while you yourself almost died. 

You can live because you hope for him, and you can also die at any time when your hopes never come true. For that, you need to leave a little love for yourself. Just a little, even if it's only at the end of your heart, at least leave it. 

Later, if something bad happens to your relationship, you will be ready to face it with the rest of the love that you maintain, love yourself. If good things later happen to your relationship with him, you will also be grateful for keeping a little love for yourself, for your long struggle, you need to be respected, by yourself. 

Second, loving yourself is more about how you see the weaknesses and strengths that exist in yourself. Understand your weaknesses, and be happy for your strengths, so that you will be able to make peace with your heart, you will be able to make peace with your brain, you will be able to make peace with yourself as you should be. 

You are beautiful as you are, you are as valuable as you are, you deserve to be you, not as someone you think is good. Because other people will never know the truth about you. 

Third, and finally. Don't lose yourself just because you follow and are influenced by other people. Why is that? Because back again like number two, other people will not understand what is really inside you, as well as you. 

You will never understand what is in the hearts of others as a whole, you only like the outside, you don't understand what other people are thinking right now, right? So start loving yourself. 

So you can make peace, so you can achieve what you want, and so you can understand what you really want.