Before choosing to love others, give meaning to yourself. Think about what I'm going to tell you this: First, when you try for someone who often doesn't try for you too, then what is the meaning of your efforts? Are you satisfied with just seeing him happy, while you yourself almost died. You can live because you hope for him, and you can also die at any time when your hopes never come true. For that, you need to leave a little love for yourself. Just a little, even if it's only at the end of your heart, at least leave it. Later, if something bad happens to your relationship, you will be ready to face it with the rest of the love that you maintain, love yourself. If good things later happen to your relationship with him, you will also be grateful for keeping a little love for yourself, for your long struggle, you need to be respected, by yourself. Second, loving yourself is more about how you see the weaknesses and strengths that e...