 In the country where I live, getting married over the age of 25 is a very serious problem. Talk about this marriage problem is not only limited to the personal environment, even to the ears of strangers who do not know me at all, of course, spread through word of mouth. Questions always succeed in filling my brain when parents ask when I will get married, because my age will soon be entering 25 years. Once, I tried asking about the relationship between 25 years of age and marriage, and my parents gave unsatisfactory answers. My parents argued, that getting married at the age of 25 would give me maturity, but wouldn't that maturity depend on the individual person? Then what about people who are only in their teens, but already look mature because of the hard life they live. In other places, there are people who are more than 25 years old, but are more like children who are just learning to walk. Because of that question, I finally ventured to ask my friends when I was in school, who is now or will get married. The answer from them is the same, no one can really satisfy my curiosity about this question. There are those who answer because someone should have given up their bachelor's age at the age of 25 years, this answer is the safest answer and not too off track. Then there are those who answer, at the age of 25 someone will show their true nature. So, it's better to wait for the original character to appear first, then later to live together, than to get married but to regret later because not knowing the couple well, and it all just happened at the age of 25 years. Hearing the answer from one of my friends earlier, I became even more convinced that the actual relationship between the age of 25 years with one's obligation to get married was only a mere fantasy. How can I believe that a person's true nature will only appear at the age of 25? And strangely, it all just happened, without any cause what happened. Then, never swallow any information that is spread between you. You need to find out the truth first, because you can't just say yes to the invitation of someone else you don't know, right ?. |
Don't Worry, You Still Worthy. for you someone who is tired, remember that you worked hard today. Likewise yesterday, and tomorrow. If you make a little mistake, it's okay. Everyone also makes mistakes. Smile like a bright sun in the morning, smile like a white cloud that moves quietly during the day, smile like the wind coming towards you slowly. Remember that somewhere else, someone is waiting for you to go home, and that's for sure. Remember that at home, there is a family waiting for you to come, greet you with a glass of hot tea, take you to dinner together, and tell you about today's activities. Time goes by, and you will realize that the people who are with you until now, are certainly the most valuable part to you. So tell them about your complaints today, about your boss who always interferes with your lunch, about your seniors who are always nosy to you, about friends in your neighborhood, who don't care about you because you are a perso...
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